Funny What A Song Can Do....
So yesterday I was having myself a pity party! I started off doing great...thought I'd tackle laundry to get my mind off of things....it doesn't work I tried.
Your mind wanders...you know the typical questions that you already know the answer to but ask yourself anyways...
~Why us?
~Where was I the day his/her heart stopped beating...
~What could I have done differently?
~Who is he/she playing with in Heaven?
~Will the next pregnancy be ok?
~I wanted my baby so much....how long will this last sad feeling last?
~How long will the physical healing process take?
Some people say ...
"it's for the best"...."you have 4 beautiful children already"..."these things happen"...blah blah...I know I know, but it doesn't make losing this little one any easier! We planned for him/her and were over the moon thrilled and to find out that one month prior he/she stopped growing hurts!!
So yesterday Lils and I were watching Nick Jr and a song came on in between shows...It really caught my attention and brightened my heart and brought tears of joy to my eyes...What was the song you ask?
Bob Marley's Three Little Birds
Funny how a song can move you so! It helps to remember God has a plan and everything will be alright. It doesn't make it hurt less...just helps put things in perspective!
Also knowing I'm not alone and hearing other people's stories has helped....I've had a lot of questions about the healing etc...and so I thank everyone for sharing ....
I didn't forget about my Giveaway...I'm sorry for not posting sooner!!!!
The winner of the Earth Mama Angel Baby is....
Annie at Our Little Family congrats Annie!!!
So share what songs pick you up and make you smile?
Your mind wanders...you know the typical questions that you already know the answer to but ask yourself anyways...
~Why us?
~Where was I the day his/her heart stopped beating...
~What could I have done differently?
~Who is he/she playing with in Heaven?
~Will the next pregnancy be ok?
~I wanted my baby so much....how long will this last sad feeling last?
~How long will the physical healing process take?
Some people say ...
"it's for the best"...."you have 4 beautiful children already"..."these things happen"...blah blah...I know I know, but it doesn't make losing this little one any easier! We planned for him/her and were over the moon thrilled and to find out that one month prior he/she stopped growing hurts!!
So yesterday Lils and I were watching Nick Jr and a song came on in between shows...It really caught my attention and brightened my heart and brought tears of joy to my eyes...What was the song you ask?
Bob Marley's Three Little Birds
Funny how a song can move you so! It helps to remember God has a plan and everything will be alright. It doesn't make it hurt less...just helps put things in perspective!
Also knowing I'm not alone and hearing other people's stories has helped....I've had a lot of questions about the healing etc...and so I thank everyone for sharing ....
I didn't forget about my Giveaway...I'm sorry for not posting sooner!!!!
The winner of the Earth Mama Angel Baby is....
Annie at Our Little Family congrats Annie!!!
So share what songs pick you up and make you smile?
Comments
Prayers and thoughts for you hun.
Each and every pregnancy is special and IS meant to be.
Sending you hugs and prayers.
I know it's going to be a long road for you. I'll keep praying!
P.S. Head over to my blog- I've got something for you!
And about the song....there are too many to list!!
<3 - Tara
me and my husband sing that to one another whenever the other one is worried or having a rough time of it. it gets us through, i know it'll help you
xo
First off I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine how hard this must be. Your baby is in the loving arms of Jesus now!
This verse always brings me peace when I'm having a hard time...I hope it encourages you! Many prayers headed your way!
"As for God, His way is perfect;
the Word of the Lord is flawless,
He is a shield for all who take refuge in Him."
Psalm 18:30
Praying for you, thinking of you, and sending lots and lots of love your way! XO
i am so very sorry
i cant't speak on this from experience. but just know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
erin
I don;t want to be flippant. I am so frustrated at what has transpired, I just don;t know what to say...
I'm crying for the second time today, and I feel like I'm getting hot flashes.
I am so sorry for your loss, I don't even know where to begin. There is nothing to say. Nothing that can make it any better. I know that. Nothing that can change what has happened.
Gods hands. Gods plan. We are the performers, and life is his masterpiece. We work through God and you have to trust that he is with you...
"I didn't leave you.
During your times of trial
and suffering, when you see only
one set of footprints,
that was when I carried you".
I am giving you my heart and my love today. You are in my prayers and thoughts everyday until I know you no longer need them.
Holly